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by Oliver Smith
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When the Henin differentiated from the Inoleth, the universal "one", evolving into twelve separate, yet enmeshed, entities, they sought to heighten the experience of their separateness by finding ways to connect with each other through physical means, especially after Cren placed the Biola Sea upon the Sevid ( Eternal Plane ) and constructed islands upon it (see Adeled), one for each of the Henin in their own region of the Biola Sea.

A variety of physical means were tried, over many Henin Breaths, to establish a mutually satisfying and pleasurable experience, but it was not until the Intredu was formed between Cren, Treven and Hesbrid, that physical affection was raised to a level sufficient to capture the spirits of all of the Henin. Each of the Intredu contributed a significant piece to the experience of affection between the three of them:
Cren Provided the physical means of contact.
Treven Provided the instinctive, visceral attraction to each other.
Hesbrid Provided the spiritual connection between them once they had established physical contact.
Since all activities within any of the individual Henin involves some level of participation by all of the other Henin, and this experience of physical displays of affection was no different (in that respect), here is a summary of the aspects originating from the other nine Henin:
Deveg (law) It was from Deveg that the rules of relationships between participants within a relationship evolved, and laid a foundation on which those relationships could be sustained.
Nerth (power) From Nerth came the strength and energy fuel to the physical, spiritual and emotional synergy that takes place in a relationship.
Ruvel (aggression) Ruvel supplied the initiative, drive and motivation to bring the participants in a relationship together.
Gebod (knowledge, learning) As a life force experienced relationships and grows within a specific relationship, it is the accumulated knowledge that feeds, nourishes and enriches the experience of a relationship across time. All accumulated and assimilated knowledge grows from the depths of Gebod.
Temlad (emotion, lust, desire) Whatever motivates and sustains a relationship ultimately depends on the joy, pleasure, comfort, thrill, and a host of other emotional experiences that results from the physical, emotional and spiritual connections that are a part of a relationship. It is from Temlad that these feelings, emotions and intensity originate.
Dothen (wisdom, appreciation, perspective) From Dothen comes an appreciation for a relationship as the participants assimilate, and put in perspective, the accumlated knowledge, experience and sensation present within a relationship.
Resam (logic, planning, analytical skill) Resam provides the organization and skill to plan the details of encounter and communication within a relationship.
Amser (time, rhythm) Without Amser, there would be no means for synchronizing and ordering the events, communication or physical interaction within a relationship.
Newid (change, adaptation) From Newid springs forth the organic, dynamic change that is the result of relationships, allowing the relationships to evolve over time (Amser).
As each Henin took on a desired physical form, they tended to fall into specific orientations with respect to the Spirit Sharing occurring within Cuvran:
  1. Spirit Giving
  2. Spirit Receiving
It was from these traits of behavior that the genitalia evolved, with the Spirit Giving Henin developing some form of appendage that could be used to probe the sexual depths of the Spirit Receiving, who evolved some form of orafice that would respond to appendages of the Spirit Giving.

On Earth we would eventually call these physical attributes a "penis" (the aggressive) and "vulva" (the receptive) respectively. And in turn, "masculine" and "feminine".

Six of the Henin were self-identified as "feminine":
  1. Gebod
  2. Temlad
  3. Dothen
  4. Treven
  5. Cren
  6. Hesbrid
Six of the Henin were self-identified as "masculine":
  1. Deveg
  2. Ruvel
  3. Nerth
  4. Resam
  5. Amser
  6. Newid
Once the Henin had differentiated from the Inoleth and had taken on physical bodies. their gender identity resulted in the evolution of corresponding 'aggressive' and 'receptive' genitals, but the nature of the relationships that they engaged in did not necessarily follow straightforward male/female aggressive/receptive pattern. Nor did they consistently pair up into exclusive, intimate partnerships, as much of human culture would seem to imply was "natural".

Although the intimate relationships between the Henin were not necessarily permanent, there were a number of relationships which tended to define the manner in which they interacted with each other:
Treven (feminine) - Treven (feminine) - Treven (feminine)
The is the relationship which makes up the Intredu.
Deveg (Ces) - Gebod (Covl)
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Ruvel (Ces) - Temlad (Covl)
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Resam (Ces) - Dothen (Covl)
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Amser (Ces) - Newid (Ces)
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Although on Earth, Sex was considered to be primarily a means of reproduction and secondarily a means of expressing affection or experiencing "pleasure", on Addewid, sex was primarily a means of sharing one's Spirit. The intimacy, and all of the pleasure, joy and ecstasy that comes with it, was the by-product of this Spirit-Sharing that took place.

Spirit, being one of the four principle Addewin Elements, plays a significant role in how all life forms relate to each other. This is no different with Sex. As a matter of fact, this process of Spirit-Sharing, known as Cuvran, provides the foundation for much of what is know as "Sex" within Addewid and it archetypally established the model for Sex and Reproduction on Earth.

One aspect of Cuvran relates to the Gender Identity and the Gender Manifestation of a Life Form within the Inoleth. The Gender Identity reflects the Spiritual State of a Life Form (i.e. "I feel like a male" or "I relate to my world as a female"). The Gender Manifestation, on the other hand, relates to the physical characteristics of the Life Form's body with respect to Genitalia, which is the physical means of expressing Cuvran.

Cuvran can be expressed from two perspectives, both of which are equal but different in subtle, yet profound ways:
  1. Spirit Giving
  2. Spirit Receiving
A potentially useful metaphore for illustrating the gender-context of Cuvran would be the drawing of an image on a sheet of paper with a pencil. The pencil can be "moved" across the paper with either one of two actions by a grasping hand: pushing and pulling. The complete image can be accomplished just as effectively with a "pulling" motion as it can be with a "pushing" motion. Or the hand can use both orientations of "pushing" and "pulling" while presenting the image. The end result is the same, but the experience of drawing the image is different. Within Cuvran, a similar difference is experienced with respect to "masculine" and "feminine" spirit-sharing. The "pushing" of the pencil across the paper is somewhat analogous to "Spirit Giving" and the "pulling" of the pencil across the paper would correspond to "Spirit Receiving".

All Addewin Life Forms possess spirit and all are capable of Spirit Giving and Spirit Receiving, but some Life Forms are predisposed to Spirit Giving and others are predisposed to Spirit Receiving. On Addewid a Life Form's Cuvran orientation would result in the formation of genitals matching that orientation. So a Spirit Receiving Life Form would receive Female genitalia and a Spirit Giving Life Form would receive Masculine genitalia. Life Forms with an equal orientation towards both Spirit Giving and Spirit Receiving would develope both Feminine and Masculine genitalia, thus being a Hermaphroditic Life Form.

Unfortunately, these two facets of Cuvran evolved into inferior experiences within the Cavnod on Earth. "Giving" became associated with aggression, initiative and creativity. It was usurped by the military mindset that became so pervasive within Humanity. Receiving became associated with passiveness, yielding and submission. This use and abuse of Ruvel became a point of grave concern for the Intredu.

The original intent and expression of Cuvran within Addewid, as put in place by the Intredu, was that it could take place in several general permutations:
Forms of Cuvran
Form Spiritual Experience Result
Male Masturbation Spirit Seeking ( Ces ) Greater self awareness
Female Masturbation Spirit Embracing ( Covl ) Greater spiritual insight
Hermaphroditic Masturbation Spirit Seeking ( Ces ) and Embracing ( Covl ) Spiritual exploration
Spiritual insight
Hermaphroditic Partners Spirit Seeking ( Ces ) Spiritual Exploration
Hermaphroditic Partners Spirit Embracing ( Covl ) Spiritual insight
Hermaphroditic Partners Simultaneous Spirit Embracing ( Covl )
and Spirit Seeking ( Ces )
Spiritual exploration and
Spiritual insight
Heterosexual Partners As Spirit Seeker ( Ces ) Spiritual Exploration
Heterosexual Partners As Spirit Embracer ( Covl ) Spiritual Insight
Homosexual Partners as Spiritual Seeker ( Ces ) Spiritual exploration
Homosexual Partners as Spiritual Embracer ( Covl ) Spiritual insight


Praise be,
The Blessed Three


David Maple-Green





( Count from 08/09/2003 )


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